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Open Question: How to cope with being gay when I feel odd about it?

I am pretty sure I am gay. I have gone on gay dating websites and had tons of offers both for fun, and genuine good old fashion dates. I have never really had a crush on another woman. Even though sometimes I try and force myself, because in my mind I know that 9 out of 10 people are straight, so its really tough knowing how to deal with the situation I am in. I am not open about it. I have not told anyone in my family and only one good friend of mine knows about my situation. I also live in an area where there are hardly any gay people or lesbians. Its a small village may make sense now? Any way I pretty much know I am into guys 100%, but don't like the fact I am, yet if I try to go with a girl I just feel uneasy and don't really enjoy it. I love company of male or female its just body contact and fun I like guys. Is there anything I can do to help me? Thanks for reading. p.s I find a lot of ladies very attractive, but don't enjoy sex or contact with a female, however I find guys attractive, and like them in that way too! Guys girls who ever please advice?

Open Question: Question about modelling? Please help me?

I recently received a facebook message from this woman who owns a modelling agency where I live. I know she isn't fake because I know people who model for her and they do shoots for brands like Accessorize and Monsoon (just to give you an example). She asked me to tell her my age and height, and to give her a photo of me in a bikini. When I told my mom about this, she said I should be happy, but that modelling wasn't someothing I should pursue if I want to become a doctor (which I do) and want to be taken seriously. I'm 18 years old and almost finished my A levels, so I have 4 months of summer ahead of me before I enter med school (if I get the grades). ... Is my mother just old fashioned, or is she right? I kind of feel she might have a point but at the same time this seems like a great opportunity a lot of girls would want, and I'm going to throw it away. I just don't want to o anything I'd regret in the future :/ What is YOUR opinion, please? That could really help me, honestly. Thank you :) x

Open Question: Best decade in makeup and fashion?

I really love the 50's, 60's, 70's , 80's and 90's - the music, the movies, the way women dressed and maked-up, everything....so now i'm trying to find a style that suites me. Find it weird or not, i like old punk and heavy metal music but i also like the vintage style..:D...so which style is the best in your opinion? The 50's classy makeup or a grunge 90's makeup? Thanks! :)

Open Question: What is the name of this film?

I have been trying to remember what this film is. I have tried looking it up on the internet but there haven't been any results. I can only remember parts of this film :( There is a woman who is performing on stage with a man, after their performance he asks her to marry him but she replies that she is already married. Her husband is killed and she has a child but has to live with her husbands parents. She kidnaps the child and puts him in a taxi but the taxi drives off with the child in, so she chases it. The first man is in a diner and starts drumming his fingers on the table, the woman is sat at the counter and recognises the man by the finger drumming. They eventually get together and travel off through a tunnel of love. I saw this film on TV ages ago and would love to watch it again. It is quite an old fashioned film. Perhaps a musical? Thank you for any help given!

Open Question: which dress would go best? (pics)?

Im 5'6, med skin tone brown hair, blue eyes. wondering which dress would go best? On the john lewis link I mean the grapefruit one, thanks ! http://www.ebay.com/itm/H-M-New-Fashion-Women-Sleeveness-Chiffon-Blue-Pleated-Dress-/261004227978#ht_5259wt_1185http://www.ebay.com/itm/H-M-New-Fashion-Women-Sleeveness-Chiffon-Blue-Pleated-Dress-/261004227978#ht_5259wt_1185 http://www.johnlewis.com/340743/Product.aspx GRAPEFRUIT

Open Question: which dress looks nicer (pics)?

Im 5'6, fair/med skin and got brown hair with blue eyes. Wondering which would look best? On the john lewis link I mean the grapefruit one, Thanks! http://www.ebay.com/itm/H-M-New-Fashion-Women-Sleeveness-Chiffon-Blue-Pleated-Dress-/261004227978#ht_5259wt_1185http://www.ebay.com/itm/H-M-New-Fashion-Women-Sleeveness-Chiffon-Blue-Pleated-Dress-/261004227978#ht_5259wt_1185 http://www.johnlewis.com/340743/Product.aspx (GRAPEFRUIT)

Open Question: Can I have a better banking solution for my Social Fund?

My girlfriend is a bit old fashioned. She doesn't want her friends to see her touch her purse when we go out with her friends, or even my friends. We started a social fund which is a checking account and an ATM Debit card that I use when we go out with friends. We both put the same amount in each week, fifty-fifty. Then when we go out with friends, I use the Social Fund Debit card to pay for our food and drinks. There are a few issues that you need to know. For some reason, the guy at the bank convinced me to get a business checking account. Part of the provisions is that I must make 4-5 Debit card purchases each month or else I will be charged a $15 monthly fee. My girlfriend has driving phobias so when we go out, I do most of the driving. So as we do not go out with friends 4-5 times a month, I started making my gas purchases with it. She got mad at that and said "if you use it for gas, just be sure to replenish the fund because I shouldn't be paying for your gas." So she doesn't want to pay for my gas, even when she is being driven in my car to see her friends. Here is another issue. When we go out with her friends, they will do weird stuff with the bill. Instead of getting separate checks, the guys will insist that the women don't pay for anything and that the men will treat the ladies. The guy that decides this should treat for every one. Instead he makes this decision and then all the guys have to follow it. So the bottom line is that if I go out and I get a club soda and a hamburger, I will have to pay for the three single girls that are friends of my GF that have been drinking wine and eating French delicacies all night long. We had a situation in which 12 people went out to dinner. Four men. Eight women. One of the four guys decides that the "ladies should be treated." So then the bill was divided up four ways instead of twelve. My quarter of the bill was financing a group of single nurses who drank wine like water and ate stuff that I couldn't pronounce for premium prices. "What does that mean on the menu?" "Its French" "Well, WTF does it mean in English?" "Shyt on a stick and you have to pay us to eat our shyt" "Sounds French." So there is personal financing and shopping for a better debit card. Is there a Debit card, or bank that has checking accounts that do not have this debit minimum and fees? How do I manage my girlfriend and her free spending? She is very much a treater with her own money, except when it comes to me. She insists that I pay for things and says that "I don't want to be taken advantage of." Now I feel as if I am the one being taken advantage of when she uses an account set up to pay for our food and drinks and she wants to use that to treat her friends too.

Open Question: korean shoe size?! run small? or large?

i wear a 7-7.5 in the U.S but i want to buy some sneakers from korea . but I'm wondering if they run small or big? so not sure what i should really choose xD help!? These Are the Sneakers ^^ http://www.ebay.com/itm/New-Womens-Shoes-Fashion-Sneakers-Cuty-High-Top-Lace-Up-Wedges-Hidden-Heels-/280859060560?pt=US_Women_s_Shoes&var=&hash=item4164812950#ht_5793wt_1002

Open Question: Why do a lot of American guys tend to have a bad attitude towards women?

I don't mean to be racist, I'm not saying ALL American guys by any means, but quite a number... It just seems to me that, more and more these days, basing this on what I've seen from guys over the internet, particularly American guys, on forums and so on, they seem to have a bad attitude towards women, compared to in the past where women were treated special. They don't like the idea of a housewife anymore- I am one, and for saying so on an internet forum, I was "attacked" by several American guys saying I was a lazy, good for nothing, tax-stealer. I gave no information on the amount of work I do, but it's a lot. Yet that was their immediate reaction. That women should be out their working just like men- i'm not a feminist, those women annoy me a lot.... but I guess I wish there was more respect in another way. Maybe you'd call me the "anti-feminist".... I guess I'm kind of old-fashioned in my views, and I'm not saying women are not capable of working, of course they are and I think it's great society is moving in that direction. but what happened to just loving women for what they are? Being mothers, caring and loving and looking after the home? It just shouldn't be a problem. It's natural. And just general attitudes, like for example I've read several guys on the internet complaining that girls should be coming to pick them up for dates, girls should be opening doors for them, girls should be pulling out chairs for them. It's like, grow a pair. What happened to being a gentlemen? I know several people will tell me I'm old-fashioned, but I liked the way things used to be. Where girls were allowed to be girls and boys were allowed to be boys.... It's more fun that way, and it's sort of cute, even a lot of guys would agree to that. At least my husband does. He loves treating my like his woman and he likewise loves me to treat him and respect him as a true man. I'm glad women are getting more recognition for their capabilities as they are just as good as a guys at least mentally. But I just hope things don't keep on going further this way to the point where there won't be any more of that stuff that makes being a girl special, or that makes being a guy empowering and strong....

Resolved Question: I'm looking for this movie, possibly from the 80's or 90's. Don't know who's in it or what it's called.?

It's about this ugly timid young brunet woman who needs reconstructive surgery after getting in a car accident with her father as a child, then gets engaged to her surgeon (who made her resemble his first wife), then becomes independent after the break up and I think works for a fashion company. At the beginning, we see her loose her first job 'cause this "boyfriend" of hers (guy that sees the chance to take advantage of her) convinces her to rob the elder person she worked for. Near the end of the movie, he comes back & tried to attack her or something (after she's all gorgeous, confidant & successful).