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Voting Question: Does he have feelings for my friend? (worth reading)?

we all met a little over 3 years ago and became friends. i started dating "john" and "jane" was our friend, although more like a 3rd wheel. we kept in touch with jane, but didn't see her for about 2 1/2 years when she came to spend the weekend. although he won't admit it now, he brought up jane during our intimate moments, only a couple of weeks before she was scheduled to arrive. he'd ask me what i'd do if she were in bed with us and things of that nature. at first i played along, but it was extremely uncomfortable for me and i made that clear to him, also stating that bringing her into our bed was out of the question. when jane was spending the weekend, john told me he felt turned on by the fact that she was here. he tried to buy us matching lingerie, held us both on the couch, and even spooned her when he invited her to bed with us when it was time to sleep. nothing sexual happened, but it was obvious that he wanted it to happen. when i confronted him about his behavior and told him how hurt i felt, he reassured me over and over again that he had no feelings for her, it was simply lust...that any guy would want to have a threesome. she left and started texting us both. i found that he would answer her with one-word (or at least, very short) replies. this made me uncomfortable as well, however, so he stopped texting her back. now my friend wants to come spend another weekend with us, thinking there isn't a problem between john and i. i keep making excuses, but i'm going to have to eventually tell her why i'm avoiding having her over again. do you think he is lying about having feelings for my friend? he's been up front with me about wanting to sleep with her, do you think that i should trust him when he says it's purely lust? side note: also, should i have her over again? a big part of me says not to put him through that temptation again because it might end badly, but she's one of my closest friends and i don't want to lose her.

Resolved Question: Has anyone purchased intimate apparel from these 2 sites?

My girlfriend is looking for a bustier labeled "Sweet Temptations", catalog# DG6228 from the 'Dream girl' International lingerie line. Through an extensive goggle search, I found several sites that had it listed as 'available'. However, after checking through the Better Business Bureau site, reading reviews, and using D.N.S. look-up /website analyzers, I realized that most of the sites are scam sites. The 2 sites that I could not find any negative information/reviews for are www.attractivewear.net www.pinkandwhite.net if anyone can let me if they have had any recent successful transactions/dealings with either one, I would appreciate it. Joe

Resolved Question: Which one would you like best on a woman?

A) http://www.ebay.com/itm/Sexy-Women-Lingerie-Mesh-Leather-Bra-G-string-Mini-Dress-Black-/170825743548?pt=LH_DefaultDomain_0&hash=item27c601fcbc B) http://www.ebay.com/itm/New-Sexy-Spandex-lingerie-White-babydoll-G-String-8019-/120786628928?pt=US_Camisoles_Sets&hash=item1c1f71b140 C) http://www.ebay.com/itm/Sexy-Lingerie-Dress-Purple-Underwear-Intimate-Babydoll-Nighty-Robe-G-string-qz76-/220988492508?pt=US_Camisoles_Sets&hash=item3373f0cadc D) http://www.ebay.com/itm/Sexy-Black-Sheer-Lace-Cut-Out-Halter-Teddie-Teddy-Lingerie-/390390219206?pt=US_CSA_WC_Sleepwear_Robes&hash=item5ae51201c6 I love all of these and I figure the best way to help me decide is to get a male opinion. :)

Voting Question: Is this dress ok to wear for a school dance?

Yesterday I bought this dress from Free People for a semi-formal dance at school. When I got home my friend noticed that the label said, "Intimately Free People" We looked it up and it is from the Free People "Intimates" collection. Does this mean it is lingerie? Here is the dress, http://www.freepeople.com/intimates-slips-bed-jackets/stretch-eyelet-bodycon/ Is it inappropriate??? How can I tone down the sexy? its an 8th grade dance...I don't want to look like I'm trying to be something I'm not P.s. what accessories/hair would you add???

Resolved Question: Guys, I have a sex question ?

My bf and I( I am 23 and he is 29). Have been dating for 6 months now. We have sex almost everyday and more on the weekends, usually I would say around 10x or so. We are both open minded and like to keep a good variety .. strip teases, lap dances, massages, different positions, oral sex, shower sex, costumes, lingerie, me taking control sometimes and more. We did all of these things and have had the same frequency since we first got intimate. The only time we do not have sex is owhen I am on my monthly except for oral sex. We both have high sex drives and I feel like its enough but I want to get a guys opinion. Also, we do use protection and I take birth control. Is this enough or satisfying for a man?

Resolved Question: Is this enough sex for a guy? ?

My bf and I( I am 23 and he is 29). Have been dating for 6 months now. We have sex almost everyday and more on the weekends, usually I would say around 10x or so. We are both open minded and like to keep a good variety .. strip teases, lap dances, massages, different positions, oral sex, shower sex, costumes, lingerie, me taking control sometimes and more. We did all of these things and have had the same frequency since we first got intimate. The only time we do not have sex is owhen I am on my monthly except for oral sex. We both have high sex drives and I feel like its enough but I want to get a guys opinion. Also, we do use protection and I take birth control. Is this enough or satisfying for a man?

Resolved Question: Husband loves me but isn't "in love" with me?

Forgive me if this is long. My husband and I dated for 4 1/2 years, and now have been married almost a year. He surprised me with a surprise destination wedding, had all of the details worked out. I was completely surprised. We have always had a great relationship, never fight, same interests, generally we were that couple that could spend all of our time together and never get sick of each other. After a few months of dating, our sex life did dwindle, so we didn't have a super active sex life. Don't get me wrong, we were intimate, but not like we should have been, newly dating. After we got married, my husband got accepted into an anesthesia program, and we quit our jobs and moved 12 hours away from home for him to attend school and me to work and support us. Now, 7 months into the program, he drops the "I love you, but I'm not in love with you anymore" bomb on me. He says he feels like we are roommates, not married. Says that he had a few doubts when we got married, although looking at our wedding pics, you couldn't tell it. He looked so happy. But he said he knew I wouldn't move with him without more of a commitment, so he did what he thought was right. He did start acting more distant after his first semester of school, and when I asked him about it, he just says that he's never been this stressed before (meaning with school). He has started drinking more, going out more when I go to work to blow off stress from school. He says he really wishes that he could feel something, and he suggested that we go to counceling. We went to one counceling session (so far) and she really just sided with my husband. She says things like me being full of hope and my husband not having much hope. He doesn't want to have sex with me, even after new lingerie and heels (which I never do). He promises he is not cheating and says he hasn't found anyone else, and at this point, I do believe him because that would be an easy out for him. He just doesn't feel that spark, intimacy with me. I really feel that all this is related to the new career change, stress of new marriage, new move, his new school, just all that compounded onto us in one short year. Also, we are so comfortable with each other, we haven't tried to spice things up in a while. We just lived day to day. I know we fell into that comfortable relationship rut. He says I'm his best friend. He says he has been researching things online, and truth be told, I'm sure he has, but he hasn't tried anything new to help fix things. I really feel that divorce is the wrong choice, because I feel that he will regret it later, when the stress dies down. I came back to my hometown for a short, one week break for him to do some thinking, but honestly, I don't feel that will do much since he knows I'm coming back in a few days. And in the new town we moved to, on one income now, it's not like we can take a 3 or 4 month separation, because the rent on houses is ridiculous. I'm just at a loss right now. My whole world is shattered. I really feel like he is the person I am supposed to be with. I just wish I could know if his feelings are mostly stress related. Again, sorry this was so long. I just wanted other people's opinions.

Resolved Question: Haven't had sex with hubby for 2 years?

This is something that I couldn't share with family and friends but I do need help because its really killing me. I am 30 yr old and my husband is 40. We have been married for 4 yrs. We have a beautiful 2 yr old son. I think I look pretty decent, have had lots of boyfriends in the past. Look pretty good even after having a baby. Now the issue is that my husband doesn't want to have sex with me. He hasn't said so but we haven't made out for the last 2 yrs. last we did it was to procreate. That too because I told him it was the right time to try and have a baby. I can count on my fingers the number of times we have had sex in last 4 yrs. He is a great husband and father otherwise. Loves me, pampers me. We travel a lot and have a decent time but this keeps gnawing at me. I need romance. I need loving affection and cuddles. In the past I have tried to bring intimacy and romance. I have read online. Tried Romantic dinners, nice lingerie etc but he's either tired or unwell or my son's presence turns him off. Over time I have realized that I do not want to be intimate with him anymore. I keep thinking about extra marital affairs with no strings attached. I dream about having sex with my ex boyfriends. I know it's because I am frustrated. But honestly who wouldn't be. I read romantic books and start crying. There are days when I feel so miserable I end up crying again. Please put yourself in my shoes and tell me what u think 1. Separate from him but I have my son to think about. He adores his father and my husband loves him to bits too. 2. Live together but have an affair but what if I become serious in another relationship? 3. Continue getting frustrated because this is a love marriage ( sorry forgot to mention it earlier). Ps. I know for sure that he doesn't have another woman in his life so pls don't bother going in that direction. Thanks for all the answers. I think I must seek counseling and convince my husband too. I am sure he will agree because this marriage and our family mean a lot to him. I agree that I must give our relationship another chance. Thanks again.

Resolved Question: GUYS! Should I shrug it off or be upset?

Everytime me and my boyfriend get intimate he says "I want to buy you some sexy lingerie to wear." Then he'll take me to lingerie stores, we'll look around for awhile and I'll hint at what I like, and he just stands there, then says lets head out now. I don't expect him to buy me ****, I'm sad because he set me up to believe he was going to do something and didn't follow through. I don't think it's a money issue, he spends 100's of dollars on stuff for himself every two weeks. Should I be sad or should I shrug it off, should I say something to him about it?? Thank you so much!!!

Resolved Question: Should I be upset or shrug it off?

Everytime me and my boyfriend get intimate he says "I want to buy you some sexy lingerie to wear." Then he'll take me to lingerie stores, we'll look around for awhile and I'll hint at what I like, and he just stands there, then says lets head out now. I don't expect him to buy me ****, I'm sad because he set me up to believe he was going to do something and didn't follow through. I don't think it's a money issue, he spends 100's of dollars on stuff for himself every two weeks. Should I be sad or should I shrug it off, should I say something to him about it?? Thank you so much!!!